Dating can be a tricky and sometimes frustrating experience, especially for women. It’s easy to get caught up in the excitement of meeting someone new and overlook red flags or compromise on what you truly want in a partner. That’s why having standards when it comes to dating is crucial for your own happiness and well-being. Here’s why:
Standards help you identify red flags.
When you have clear standards, it’s easier to identify red flags early on in a relationship. This can help you avoid getting involved with someone who may not be a good match for you and can save you from heartache down the line. Remember, better safe than sorry!
Standards prevent you from wasting time.
Because you have standards and are able to better notice red flags, you can cut short the time wasted in a relationship that is a dead end. Put an end to it quickly before you get too emotionally attached to him; then, it might be more difficult to terminate.
Standards help you avoid settling for less.
When you have a clear idea of what you want in a partner, you’re less likely to settle for someone who doesn’t meet those criteria. This means you’ll be more likely to find someone who is truly compatible with you and with whom you can build a fulfilling relationship.
Standards show that you value yourself.
Did you know that predators look for people with little confidence? Narcissists will look for the weak spot in you and use it. And he will make you feel like the only person who sees the good in you. By setting standards for yourself and your potential partner, you’re sending a message that you value yourself and your own happiness. You send a signal that you know who you are and what you want. Moreover, this can be incredibly attractive to others and can help you attract people who are also looking for a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
Standards help you communicate your needs.
When you have standards, you’re better able to communicate your needs and expectations to your partner. This can help you build a stronger and more honest relationship and can help you avoid misunderstandings or miscommunications.
Having standards when it comes to dating is crucial for your own well-being as well as that of your partner. By setting clear standards for yourself and your potential partner, you’ll be more likely to find a fulfilling and healthy relationship. It will also help spare you some heartache along the way. So don’t be afraid to hold out for what you truly want and deserve in a partner—it’s worth it in the end.
And remember, if standards are good, let’s keep them reasonable, and at the end of the day, better be alone than miserable with the wrong person.
The Modern Woman 